Cultivating Connections: Networking in College

When I first started college it was awkward like most peoples experience. Luckily one of the first and I would say best classes I ever took was public speaking. Very early on the professor made it clear that if you could not connect you could not communicate.

What happened next was a stroke of luck and a little bit of positive affirmations. I watched a video on youtube seeking knowledge about how to get over the societal dread that people have when they speak to new people. the answer was overly simple. Sit at different table every single day and try to speak to one new person. The results were insane and I instantly reaped the benefits of this simple task. I met a man name Brian. Brian was cool outgoing guy, in somewhat the same situation as me. We became friends and the next day I walked right by him and sat at a table full of women. He looked at me as I walked by as if I had slighted him somehow.

I had not intentionally disrespected my new friend. My intent was simple, I was going to try this new idea. It worked like a charm. I met every single person in the class quickly and when every person was sweating bullets presenting to the class I was calm and collected. I had already met everyone in the class and I knew that they were all just as nervous as I was. I had a new found confidence that I had never had before. I was able to speak to anyone and everyone. I was able to connect with people and I was able to communicate with them. I was able to cultivate connections.

What happened next was something that I would read about later in a Malcolm Gladwell book. I became a connector. Every time I would sit at a table would introduce the people that I had previously met to the people that I was currently sitting with. This has been one of the most powerful pieces of social knowledge I have ever attained. It's one of the most beneficial things that you could ever do in your college career. Even if you are introverted, it's just one person at a time.

College is not just a learning environment but also a networking hub where forming meaningful connections can lead to myriad opportunities and enriching experiences.

The Essence of Meeting New People

Meeting diverse individuals and forming friendships enriches one's college experience, fostering personal growth, and broadening perspectives. It opens the door to mutual learning, support, and shared experiences.

Creating and Leveraging Networks

Building a robust network can lead to academic collaboration, internship opportunities, and potential job offers. Leveraging these networks can open doors to professional growth and development.

Networking is a two-way street. It is important to be open to new experiences and opportunities while also being willing to help others in their endeavors.

Becoming the Connector

Being a connector means bridging the gap between diverse groups and individuals, creating a cohesive and inclusive environment. Connectors can foster community spirit and facilitate collaborative endeavors, enriching the college experience for everyone involved.

Connectors are also invaluable resources for others, providing information and guidance, and helping them navigate the college experience. I cannot tell you how many times I have needed someone to alleviate the social awkwardness and on the rare occasion there is the hero we all need that brings the social solace that we all need. Be the hero, talk to people and introduce them to each other and watch the magic happen.

Harnessing the Power of Networking

Developing strong communication skills, actively participating in college events, and joining clubs and societies are effective ways to meet new people and build networks. Consistent effort and a positive attitude are key to becoming a successful connector.

Networking is the single most powerful tool that a college student can use to prepare for their career. It will not only get you through college with friends and few close buddies along the way but it will also help you get a job when you graduate.I have seen software engineers with all the skills to pay the bills, (me at one time) but they could not get a job because they did not know how to network. I have also seen people with no skills get jobs because they knew how to network. It is a powerful tool that you should not sleep on. Truly I have seen so many people who have the gift of gab get the job over the people who are truly talented more often than not. Because in the end we have to work with you.

Conclusion

Networking and communication in college are indispensable for personal and professional development. By meeting new people, building networks, and acting as connectors, students can enhance their college experience and set the stage for future success.

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